Top 10 Etiquette Dos for a More Civilized City Experience

“Fine manners need the support of fine manners in others.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Do walk on the right side of the sidewalk, keeping to the far right at all times, except when passing.
Do let others exit elevators, buildings and public transportation before you attempt to enter them. (It’s always out before in.)
Do hold doors open for individuals following closely behind you or for someone who may need a little help entering a building or public transportation.
Do give up your seat to someone who may need it more than you—the elderly, a caregiver with small children, a woman who is pregnant– when you are taking public transportation.
Do be mindful of others when you are talking or texting on your cell phone when you are in public places: Save your private conversations for private locations. (When walking down the sidewalk or crossing the street, be especially mindful of others when talking or texting on your cell phone.)
Do be sensitive to others’ enjoyment at restaurants, movies, or any other performances or cultural events by not talking on your cell phone, keeping your voice low when you are having a conversation, and conducting yourself with a sense of decorum.
Do smile and take time to give tourists directions. (You want tourists to think your city’s inhabitants are polite, friendly, and helpful.)
Do eat in restaurants or other appropriate places, such as the park –not on buses, the subway, or walking down the street.
Do show respect for our city streets and public places: Throw your trash in waste cans instead of littering. (And please, pick up after your dogs–wherever you are walking them– and properly dispose of their waste.)
Do be polite and use the magic words: Say “Please” and “Thank-you” to the waitstaff in restaurants, salespeople in stores, and whenever or wherever the situation calls for a “Please” or “Thank-you.”

By: Patricia Napier-Fitzpatrick

Updated: February 2018

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Top 10 Etiquette Dos for a More Civilized City Experience

“Fine manners need the support of fine manners in others.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Do walk on the right side of the sidewalk, keeping to the far right at all times, except when passing.

Do let others exit elevators, buildings and public transportation before you attempt to enter them. (It’s always out before in.)

Do hold doors open for individuals following closely behind you or for someone who may need a little help entering a building or public transportation.

Do give up your seat to someone who may need it more than you—the elderly, a caregiver with small children, a woman who is pregnant– when you are taking public transportation.

Do be mindful of others when you are talking or texting on your cell phone when you are in public places: Save your private conversations for private locations. (When walking down the sidewalk or crossing the street, be especially mindful of others when talking or texting on your cell phone.)

Do be sensitive to others’ enjoyment at restaurants, movies, or any other performances or cultural events by not talking on your cell phone, keeping your voice low when you are having a conversation, and conducting yourself with a sense of decorum.

Do smile and take time to give tourists directions. (You want tourists to think your city’s inhabitants are polite, friendly, and helpful.)

Do eat in restaurants or other appropriate places, such as the park –not on buses, the subway, or walking down the street.

Do show respect for our city streets and public places: Throw your trash in waste cans instead of littering. (And please, pick up after your dogs–wherever you are walking them– and properly dispose of their waste.)

Do be polite and use the magic words: Say “Please” and “Thank-you” to the waitstaff in restaurants, salespeople in stores, and whenever or wherever the situation calls for a “Please” or “Thank-you.”

By: Patricia Napier-Fitzpatrick

Updated: February 2018